The Problem with Perfectionism: Let it go, mama!
Have you ever held off starting something (like your dream business) because you were scared you couldn't do it perfectly? Or beaten yourself up emotionally because you made a mistake? Or spent so much energy trying to impress others that you aren't actually YOU?
I've been there. In fact, I call myself a "recovering perfectionist" because I used to be far too hard on myself. But I've learned as a mamapreneur to let go of perfectionistic tendencies. There simply is not time to focus on my failings, and I no longer feel I need to.
The problem with perfectionism is it stops us from progress.
Perfectionism robs us of our potential. And that's tragic, because we can never get where we want to be if we don't take the first step.
It seems our picture-perfect culture is ripe with wanting to look/be "perfect." Filling little squares with posed images causes documented "compare and despair," yet it is still so enticing to put our very best face forward.
We say, throw that perfectionism out the window. Shatter it, and be surprised at how refreshing it feels to be really YOU.
Listen up: Here's my not-so-perfect podcast interview on Plaid Radio.
In a newly released podcast interview with Plaid Radio, hear my uplifting conversation with Sarah Webb, president of Plaid for Women called, "Perfectionism: If you've got it all together, this is not for you." I think you'll love it. It's one I'm repeating for myself when those perfectionist tentacles try to reach for me.
There's no need to be perfect. Just be you. That is always enough!
Interview on Plaid Radio: Why I traded the corporate ladder for The Mama Ladder™
After several good years in the corporate world, when my first baby came along, I felt super torn. I'd worked hard at my career, earned a master's degree, won international awards for my work ... but this new precious person was (and still is) my proudest achievement. I refused to miss her babyhood.
Although I'd negotiated to work from home two days a week (thanks to a great manager), I felt constantly torn between being an employee and being a mom. I wanted to make a change, but wasn't sure how. Sometimes when we deeply desire something, surprise doors open.
I was unexpectedly laid off, due to corporate downsizing.
My girl was one and I was 15 weeks pregnant with my second baby at the time. Fast forward a year later, after having my baby, chipping away at self-doubt, changing my mindset, investing in mentors/training, and taking bold action ... I got a business license.
Now, instead of climbing a complicated, full-time corporate ladder, I’ve created my own ladder that fits my mamahood. My talented team of writers and I help remarkable people and organizations tell their story. We have a lot of freedom to work when and how we want, and deliver high-quality content for our growing list of world-class clients.
Listen to my recent interview on Plaid Radio to hear:
- How I work less, enjoy better compensation, AND enjoy the privilege of motherhood
- My daily mamapreneur routine and why it makes me so happy
- What I tell myself when things get tough in business (spoiler alert: it happens!)
- My experience working with a business partner
- Why shifting from employee to business owner puts you in the power seat
The Mama Ladder™ International is all about mamas helping mamas. Want help translating your corporate world skills into your own business? Let's connect.
Much love,
Crystalee